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Joy Pullmann's avatar

Re: The Boston suburb potentially charging daycares to use city parks.

I'm not sure charging preschools is the best way to handle this, but I will say that when I take my kids to public family places we definitely leave if a preschool or school group comes in. This is because:

a) they bring the children of something like 30-50 families at one time, which almost never happens when parents are taking their own kids. It oversaturates the play areas and equipment.

b) the ratio of adults to children is 1:8 to 1:12, so very, very little adult oversight of very young children who need a lot of constant oversight at their ages.

c) the children parented by daycare are far less parented/regulated than children parented by their own parent the majority of the time. That means they are more aggressive, loud, and rude. Tons of research shows this is the case with kids separated from their parents before age 6 in daycare and "preschool" settings, and it's absolutely true and noticeable IRL.

I just don't enjoy being in a park or at a indoor garden or play space with teeming mobs of largely unsupervised young children. They attack my kids, scream and fight, snatch toys, and generally make the experience extremely unpleasant. We go somewhere else or come back later when there's not a toddler mob around. It's another -- smaller than many others -- way in which urging mothers to work when their children are young is antisocial.

Sounds like I have a Federalist essay to write here, if I can fit the time in. You get the preview. :)

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Paul Perrone's avatar

As I read the “Lure of Divorce”, I was saddened. Individuals with so much material prosperity are so utterly bankrupt spiritually. And these are the “elites” of the Negative World? They live outside of reality and will collapse due to their rejection of God who is the ultimate Reality.

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