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Clark Coleman's avatar

The decline of natural law thinking in Protestant circles has led to the split between the thick and thin complementarians. If you believe that God ordained a natural order that included male leadership/headship, going back to Adam in Eden, as hinted at by Paul and believed by every Jew and Christian from antiquity to beyond the first century, then thick complementarianism is easy to arrive at.

If you do not believe in such a natural order in creation, then the male leadership passages in the New Testament are a mystery. For conservative evangelicals, you must submit to the authority of scripture, but it is a mystery why those passages exist. Thus you get the minimal submission to narrowly-interpreted passages that defines thin complementarianism. "I don't understand why God did this, but there it is in the text, so gotta obey it. But every church role not explicitly referenced in those passages is open to women."

Note that there are also thick complementarians who do not articulate a natural law understanding of male and female, and they tend to be weak apologists for their own position as a result. This can be read as a rephrasing of Aaron's critique of complementarianism from newsletter #30: People who are somewhat on the right track, Biblically, but whose rhetoric is not what you would have gotten from an apostle in the first century who was asked to explain WHY. Rather, they try to explain using the rhetoric of our times, in which natural law is not employed.

(As an aside, the universal belief among Christians and Jews in the first century of a natural order of male and female in creation is one reason that we don't have more New Testament passages addressing male leadership in the congregation. The natural creation order was the water they swam in and needed explaining only if an aberration arose somewhere. The small number of passages itself presents an opportunity for egalitarian reinterpretations.)

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Mark S Griffith's avatar

How does one square either of these approaches to sex roles with actual scripture? The Word of God.

The bible clearly says that the woman was created for the benefit of man, not the other way around.

Also, how would you square either of these philosophies with what we see in life? Is there any evidence that if women were in charge we would be better off? No, what we have seen is women tend to behave and act and think emotionally. All the honest evidence points to the fact that women cannot in fact survive or thrive without a man, but man can and often does survive and thrive without a woman. It isn't God's best way but it can be done.

One example of this is how well children do in single parent homes. In a home headed by a woman both sexes of children have vastly reduced outcomes in all sort of ways; educationally, income, early and pronounced promiscuity in females, much higher incarceration rates for males and on and on. On the other hand, in a home headed by a man, while the trend is still in the same direction for both sexes, it is not NEARLY as pronounced.

Were it not for civilization, which btw, is not the default for most of human history and is a recent phenomenon in the grand scheme of history, women would become nothing more than a man's property were it not for a man protecting his own wife. I would remind you that civilization is only 9 missed meals from melting away. Something I think we will see within the next 10 or 15 years.

Finally, let's go all the way back to the curse from the first sin. God admonished Eve directly and told her that she will have pain in child birth AND, AND (this one isn't preached on much these days) and I quote from the Holman Standard Version of the bible, Genesis 3:16 "Your desire will be for your husband, YET HE WILL DOMINATE YOU."

Now this part is gonna really make some folks angry and you will likely NEVER hear this preached from an Evangelical pulpit. When God admonished Adam he was scolded FOR LISTENING TO HIS WIFE!!! Genesis 3:17 "And he said to Adam, "Because you have listened to your wife's voice and ate from the tree...""

So, while men and women do in fact have differing and often complementary characteristics; women tend to be more nurturing and men better disciplinarians, for example, this does not mean they are "equal" in how the home is ordered. At least not according to how God ordered the world and according to the evidence.

The truth is rarely popular and often reviled.

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