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Benjamin L. Mabry's avatar

The dichotomy of footstool-tyrant is a response to a legitimate perception of a feature of our society. Status and power comes from exploiting and using other people as disposable consumer items. What makes our society uniquely pernicious is the ubiquity of exploitation, which is what the first movie demonstrates so well. The structure of American Modernity revolves around a series of temporary, vampiric interactions in which every person tries to drain the other of as much as possible before moving on.

And this can't be addressed without addressing the socio-economic paradigm in which this occurs. Why are most or all of our relationships temporary exchanges of value? What other relationship can you have with strangers who constantly move from city-to-city and never form a lasting social bond? I was sitting in a sermon once with one of those young, hipster, recent seminary grads and he made a comment that his church wasn't a traditional church, but a church of urban migrants. He said most of you won't remain here for more than four years and there will be a whole new church twice every decade. Therefore, rather than community building, he said we need to focus on what a "transient" church can do: give him more money for his church plants on the other side of the continent. Community building? Nah, why bother becoming a community with people who will just move away? Even the preacher was eyeing the congregation as nothing more than wallets to exploit and drain.

The dichotomy you mention above is the product of that social environment, where we cannot even conceive of the possibility of the kinds of social relationships that aren't some kind of exploitation. Every aspect of social life has been consumed by the upper-middle class market-mindset. People are nothing more than economic competitors. In such a world, it's totally reasonable to see cooperation as a foolish collaboration with one's own exploitation and hostility as the only defense. Sheepdog? To defend what? Young single men have nobody to defend and no reason to stand up for strangers who would abuse them the moment the tables turn.

The problem is that to break out of this dichotomy requires more than 1990s nostalgia. These people really *do* live in Joker world, not Batman world. People with families, friends, communities, and churches don't get it and we have an obligation to extend ourselves outside of our comfort zones. Maybe we should try to be the first to reach out to angry young men and be the first person who doesn't abuse them, doesn't exploit them, and doesn't have ulterior motives. Maybe we should be the ones to say "Yes, you have a legitimate grievance, 2020's American society is fundamentally unjust, the dominant social narratives about you really are all lies, but we have a better way in *our* community. Welcome, as long as you want. We'll have your back."

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TorqueWrench10's avatar

First of all great review. Next check out an old blog post that deal with sheepdog metaphors not what you think https://canecaldo.wordpress.com/2014/02/24/sheepwolves/

I would say one of the more powerful truths is the knowledge that sin takes out more than it puts in and basically requires deception. That’s why the sexual revolution needed so much propaganda for decades. People lived out the fact it made them miserable but that can’t be right because it was “liberating”, wasn’t it?

Finally small niggle but men aren’t “falling behind”, they were pushed. Everyone is a protected class except the white male, the majority of men in America, and to an extent men in general have been actively pushed aside whenever possible. Not literally always but only if enough protected class people couldn’t be found. I know for a fact some institutions spend money to ensure that the next hire for a position is not a white male if they can help it (and I know this not from secondary sources).

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