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Benjamin L. Mabry's avatar

One thing I have found to be profoundly missing from all of these types of modern books on masculinity is the absence of the very thing I've always associated with its very essence: arete or excellence. I haven't read the book, so perhaps Hawley discusses it and it didn't make it into the review. But arete is the male urge to be the best, the rational ordering of thymotic competitive drives. Rather than competing with others, however, it is the competition with the ideal which drives men to seek perfection. It's my great-grandfather saying "A quarter inch off is still off. Do it again."

Social status is socially constructed, for the most part, but arete confers a status that bypasses the taste-makers of society. "Hey ya'll, watch this" doesn't need to be anything of value in society, but it earns respect nonetheless if nobody can replicate it. When it is something valuable, the taste-makers of society are completely disarmed, and must bow to the natural superiority of the man of excellence, regardless of their desires. Consider the number of people who are by-and-large despised by our current elites but grudgingly granted status because of their irreplaceability and excellence.

This is the problem with some of the neo-masculinists today - they aren't doing anything that can't be replicated by anyone else. Sleep around with cheap women? Buy cars and clothes? They get their brief moment, but then disappear because literally anyone can replicate that if they're willing to make the same sacrifices. "Hey ya'll, watch this! I'll make a basket from the free-throw line." Same thing with the "man up" crowd. There's no excellence in letting people walk on your face or doing thankless work for the benefit of people who despise and exploit you. It's just embarrassing. Shake the dust off your sandals, bro, and walk away.

I hate to think in Machiavellian terms (/s is necessary here?), but elites need compliant, dutiful serfs to pull the plow, accept their exploitation, and turn over the fruits of their labors to the masters, in order to retain their elite status. There is nothing the elite hate more than a body of freemen who practice excellence in all things, especially political organization. Which makes me wonder about the intentions of a U.S. Senator who tells men to "man up," take on a greater burden, and save the poor elites at risk of losing their cushy positions to rising social and political disorder.

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David Hawley's avatar

Obligations are enabled by and rewarded with status, honor, and privileges. Egalitarianism simply doesn't work, not in the marketplace, not in voluntary organizations, not anywhere.

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